User blog comment:OmegaSpruz/The Romance Stuff/@comment-737801-20100719222212/@comment-76.177.186.249-20120515063053

You need the Gibbs Save Game editor. The way this works is if say you want to Romance Tali as Femshep, you use the editor to change your gender to male (and import a new head or the in game head will be broken) then talk to Tali at every chance you can get, then save the game and use the editor again to change your Gender and Head back to Femshep. If you Only talk to your target romance with the proper gender then when you launch the suicide mission you get the romance scene with your chosen gender model. Note however during that scene if your femshep Male Shepards dialogue will be used as Femshep never recorded for it.