User blog comment:Legionwrex/Why Destroy is the worst ending (besides refusal)./@comment-95.146.138.22-20120712160212/@comment-4237253-20120712162004

Well that would be fine, if they actually put some work into the Refusal ending, instead of an anticlimax.

Yes it's confirmed. You can clearly see Shepard alive amidst the rubble in the Citadel.