User blog comment:The Milkman/Mass Effect in Retrospect/@comment-4950455-20130417203249/@comment-24174486-20130417220750

Here's how you develop your character in an RPG where your character's personality is largely up to you: make choices that reflect a developing personality.

"I can understand maybe showing it ONCE, but after that one time it got annoying. Shepard didn't have Nightmares about the Virmire casualty, nothing about those he/she possibly lost in the Suicide Mission, nothing about other ME3 casualties"

Guess which people start haunting Shepard's dreams after the first one?