User blog comment:SolitaryReaper/Shepard in Javik's position/@comment-3062992-20120728233024/@comment-4950455-20120729012504

Probably the latter, actually (and yeah, they're pretty creepy). Shepard is more of a chick/dude magnet then the other way around, considering that you can easily play through all three games without ever romancing anyone, but some characters will crush on you no matter what you do.