Forum:Romance gone the wrong way

I was developing the romance wint Ashley and started to talk Liara to when Liara ask about Ashley I said that Ash was special then when i tried to go futher with Ashley she said she as busy and on the normandy lockdown Liara is the one who came (and almost kissed). It means that Liara is my romance, there is a way to revert it(besides try a early save)?

Feros > Liara Rescue(started to chat with Liara) > Noveria (asked about Ashley) > Virmine